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Saturday, November 20, 2010

Hamster Brain; or, 7 dpiui

I know from past experience that there's no way to know the State of the Uterus at only 7 dpo/iui. I know that having negative, down hunches about a cycle isn't a good predictor of whether or not it succeeded. Nothing is a good predictor of that, which predictably sucks.

But still-- I'm a little constie, so maybe that means something! Except, I've been that way in plenty of failed 2wws. I'm not very hungry at all, so clearly nothing is going on. But I wasn't all that hungry last cycle either. (And I was barely pregnancy last cycle, so again, not such a good sign).

I don't think I'm pregnant. I wish I were so, so, so much, but I just don't feel like I am. However, I know that things can change quickly and I can't really be sure until 13dpo. If my boobs start hurting then, it worked. If I start spotting, it didn't.

Despite the squeaky little hamster wheel spinning and spinning, I have been able to distract myself from dwelling on this fairly well so far. I had a movie date with some friends last night that was a lot of fun and a great way to occupy my mind. I've got shittons of student papers to grade this weekend, more dinner plans with LG and friends tonight, and Thanksgiving and all its preparations to focus on next week.

And then, right after Thanksgiving, I'll know. And it will hurt a lot, I can already tell. If we can't get pregnant with a perfect IUI, I'll pretty much give up on anything short of IVF working for us at all. But Christmas is right around the corner and long nights in front of our fireplace with hot cocoa and a twinkling tree will go far toward restoring my joyfulness, even if there's no baby in the manger yet.

I hope you are all having weekends that make you happy and sane.

10 comments:

  1. From one constie-girl to another, PLEASE let this be a sign. (It's the only totally legit one I've seen for myself!) Praying so hard for you Slopie. Hang in there in the final countdown. xoxo

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  2. I hope the time continues to pass as quickly as possible. Thinking of you...

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  3. Cup o' pickles to start off brunch at Buttermilk Channel = one of my happy strategies for a happy weekend. Hoping the consties are a promising sign of littles to come. Enjoy your Thanksgiving prep!

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  4. This is a great week to be distracted. I hope the time with family is filled with good food and great conversation. You need at least 3more days before your floaty critter attaches and kicks off hcg. I will be checking on you and hoping for clear positive signs.

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  5. I am still so confident that it won't come to IVF--hoping with evertything I have that this is it. I love you!

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  6. Love you, Sloper. I have high hopes for you

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  7. I've always found it hardest from about 7dpo/iui on. And I'm sending you good thoughts, and the hope that these days will fly by. And that you will get some very, very good news for Thanksgiving.

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  8. hoping that you keep yourself busy and distracted for the rest of your 2ww.
    thinking of you...

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  9. I hope the rest of the 2ww flies by with lots of distractions. (and of course good news in 7 days..)

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